Very good session, I like your counselor. The one thing I do not agree with is the "3 months you file" thing... no one can tell you when you are done. Who knows, it may be one month from now, but look at some of the people that did reconcile, they stood for YEARS. I am willing and ready to stand for years. I did before for almost 2 years before I gave up. This time, I'm doing things differently, as is he... but no one is going to tell me when to file. Firstly, I don't believe in filing b/c I don't believe in D. Anyway, the rest of it sounds wonderful.