I've been watching your sitch here and there too, thanks for the advice...
I checked her FB acct and she just friend OM just a week ago. She did have an EA w the realator she was looking for houses with. He is recently D'ed and was a shoulder to cry on.
First time I talked to her about anything besides kids was last night. when she told me she was going w this OM to comedy show, OM lives 50 miles away. She has been feeling guilty for hurting me, kids and others in the family, said she has been crying herself to sleep at night. Welcome to the club right...I get about 4 hrs nightly still.
We are seeing a MC about every 3 to 4 weeks. She is just there to feel like she is trying but I know she is just there to make herself feel better. She has been feeling a lack of loving me for about a 1 1/2 yrs...When I asked her again what the problems are she brings up stuff from 4 years ago about my not being around as much before son was born...and some re-occuring problems that she can't come up with...
I felt as though she was willing to try but now with a new OM, I'm back to square one!
