I saw your post on that thread. As you know, I will just give you my impressions based on what I read, and you can think about it and do what you like.
In an earlier post, you were second guessing yourself on the dating website. In post in the other forum, you seem happy that you did. My question to you is this...are you more excited about meeting someone else, or are you more excited that your W might know that you did?
To me, your anger toward your W shows. I hope you get what you are looking for out of your meeting on Monday. I know it's felt like a long ride.
