Hi there,
you are dealing with an affair and would be wise to post on the infidelity section. You both are still married and the just"friends" thing is total cr@p!

She left for a reason.... to pursue an affair.

Sorry to tell you this.

M38, H37
S3, S7
Together 15 yrs
Married 8 yrs
Bomb July 2008
Inhouse separation
"I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count)
Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)