Its been awhile. A few weeks and a LOT has happened. My divorce was finalized, I had a "Bachelorette Fete" to mark a new beginning, I met a nice man, I ran into my H and his GF (the day before our Divorce) at a restaurant and actually shook hands with the OW (not at ALL what I expected--she's dumpy!)...I had three wonderful dates with this new man, who is generous and kind and thinks I the best thing going in town...
And now my XH is sending me text messages about how miserable he is and how his life has only gotten worse and worse since he met the OW in 2008. I can already see it coming on...and frankly, right now, I don't want him back. He hasn't LEARNED anything.
Future, she's been counting on you being her Plan B. She got nervous when she saw you were moving on. Don't be anyone's Plan B. Don't do anything quickly and nothing slowly, even, unless and until she shows you that SHE has learned something...
What's this about how YOU were such an a**hole? Jeez, doesn't she take ANY responsibility for her actions????
