Things seem different. My wife seems to be nicer and is the one to initiate speaking now. She seems less angry and distracted. Our son is coming home on leave from Iraq 18 May and wife wants to have a dinner for him not including my side of the family. Her logic being that things would be awkward since things are not good with us. I did not respond but just listened to her. My wife has 2 sisters. The one with cancer called the other sister who sided with me and wanted to know if she knew who I was going out with. She said that Bob seems to have a lot of friends and is not home much. I took that as a positive sign as she is noticing me as being different. I have not entered into any relationship what so ever. I have been hanging out with family and male freiends. I just dont tell her what I do. Will see what happens. Bobby O
