ps I have got closer to my FIL too.My H has all but abandoned him too.You do whats rights with your W family.Dont change who you are because she has lost her mind at the mo..lala land well and truly..working long hours would suggest to me they are not spending alot of time together perhaps thats what suits her!!!

ME 44
H 45
D 14
D 20
M 22 YEARS
TOGETHER 28YEARS
Bomb Drop 14th July 09
Seperated-living with OW 10mths(14/07/09)
MLC 3years

Silence wasn't golden in this marriage; it was deadly," Dr. Robin L. Smith