Hey, here's a thought. Write down what was happening when things were good in your marriage. How did you contribute to making that happen. How did he ...I'll bet it's harder to do than to think up all the things you and he did wrong. That's why it's a good thing to do! This is why marriage counseling often sucks, because people go in, talk about everything that's wrong (which they are both experts on anyway) and then leave feeling more demoralized and hopeless than when they went in. And, oh yes, the guy hears he's supposed to communicate like a woman does with her girlfriends...which goes over like a lead balloon...don't get me started...oops, too late. I'm done
