Another part of her testing will be to try get you to change your mind... right now you're getting the sweet part... be prepared for the sour part of her lashing out at you.
Keep your resolve... show her you mean business. Here's one thing you can be prepared for... if you stick to your guns (or give the impression that you are) about proceeding for D. She will lay the bait out, "I'm not sure I want to D... or I don't want a D... I need time to think about it..."
Your response, "Thank you for sharing, however, I think I DO want a D right now. I've decided that I deserve a strong woman who knows what she wants. I've had it with wishy-washy women and I deserve to be happy."
Note: Nowhere in the above response have you told her you do not want her...
Good luck and strength.
EDIT: Oh, and be prepared for bucket loads of more tears (aka crocodile tears) to break your resolve. Don't fall for them. This was her choice. Let her wear her Big Girl Panties and deal with it. Her choices have consequences. DO NOT save her from the consequences. You do and you're sunk.
Last edited by Gnosis; 05/06/1009:55 PM.
M:11 | T:12 | Status: Married 4C's of WAS communication: Cool, Calm, Collected and CONFIDENT