My W will be home late tonight after a marathon few days of work. I know she will be exhausted.

Is it too much to have dinner ready and maybe a bath drawn when she gets in? I don't want to force anything or seem like I'm persuing but this is an instance where I really could "show up" like I haven't before. I don't want to pressure her or seem like I'm acting as if there is nothing wrong, I just figure, "you gotta eat and you gotta bathe", doesn't mean it can be a nice gesture.

I'm sorry if my questions seem petty, I'm just second guessing everything right now. "am I doing this for me or her?", "does this seem too desperate?".

I could you your advice. Anyone have ideas on how much is too much right now?