I have an idea and I've learned the hard way that I should run all my brilliant ideas through this board first. I'm thinking about exposing to OM's 17 FB friends.

I would say something like this, "I understand that you know [OM]. I just wanted to inform you that [OM] has been having an affair with my wife since July of last year and he has been relentless in his pursuit. If there is anything you can do to support me and my marriage, I'd greatly appreciate it. Thanks."

So everyone, what are your thoughts on that?

My wife is asking for a divorce and I don't completely understand why.