Hey, you are so right about not worrying about them adn doing our own thing!
I did finally have an IM conversation with XH yesterday, completely initiated by him! It was a good one! I am doing all I can not to say a word about anything dramatic! Today he sent me a few emails and told me he was praying for my Mom, who is very sick! It took everything out of me not to reply with "praying? since when do you ever pray, and if you had started doing that 3 years ago we wouldn't be where we are now" But, instead I said "Thanks for praying for my Mom" Which was/is the only Mom he has ever had, his died when he was 8 yrs. old. And, my Mom is the best Mom ever and always treated him like a son! My Dad is the same way! Whatever!
I think you should at least date that woman, just dating someone and having fun doesn't mean you are marrying them and having to take on their kids!! You deserve some fun and company of a nice woman! Go for it! Don't think so much!! LOL!!
Sorry about the cottage, why did it HAVE to be sold? Sounds like they could afford both so your kids would have that one to go to with you! People are so selfish and have no clue what they are doing to other people!
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Me-40 XH-44 T-21 M-18 Div-19 mo. D-18,S-15,D-11 Bomb-7/07 EA,PA Mvd out-9/07-to give me space mvd back-12/07 mvd out-7/08 back with OW since 2/08 OW broke it off-1/10 in and out of tunnel and our life since!!
