I've decided not to respond to her email. I see no point in it. The more I think about it the more I think she was just partonizing me anyway. Her saying "thank you" and she "appreciates" me sending flowers and thinking of her are just ways of her being polite, I agree with CityGirl on this one. I think she was also just being polite wishing my father a happy birthday. I don't think I believe there was any real sincerity on her part for anything she said in her email other than feeling uncomfortable with the flowers left on her car.

So she acknowledged the flowers, big deal. I'm not reading anything into it. I agree with CityGirl that I will not contact her unless there is an issue with the finances or something important. I'm sure I won't hear from her again for a while anyway unless it's something she wants. I'm tired of getting crumbs. Unless she begins to want to actually talk about the M then I see no reason to talk to her.


M 38
WAW 36
Together 19 years
Married 12 years
Bomb/Separated Oct. 09
I love my wife
Sitch