Got it Coach! Thanks again, I follow 100%! Looking at your perspective has actually helped my PMA believe it or not.

And W just called me at work. Very friendly. I have avoided her all day very successfully. I saw it was her number and hoped the secretary was out because I wasn't going to answer...secretary answered so I talked to her.

W was very friendly, very soft spoken tones of voice, not at all distant/angry/cold. She asked about a project she saw I had been handed. Told her I was just starting to work it, will get thru it fine. She said I can help with one part and just e-mail you my thoughts that you can either use or not. I said that would be nice, thank you. I stayed distant/distracted. She said I can tell you are thinking about these things, I should let you go. I said yes, thank you, I got a lot to do on this. Then a very soft spoken almost sad goodbye from her.

I certainly did not expect that. I had plans of going all day without any contact, emails, or conversations.


M39 W41
Two children
WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09
Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10
No longer piecing...Nov 10
Separation Jan 11
EA ends again Feb 11
Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11