Okay,

Did you do this JUST for a reaction from him....???

There is a huge difference in doing a 180 for "shock" value, as opposed to...

Doing a 180 for you....

Because it is the right thing for you....

And that it may be okay to "go dark" , NC , or whatever you may call it...

And usually, it is necessary for the LBS to reclaim some normalcy....




Is this a boundary for you ?

Have you stated that boundary to him ?

Are you ready to back this up and be consistent?