Because if they don't know the pain, they may very well do it again since its not that big of a deal.
this is why i still have not forgave her or told her this....i guess i am afraid she will think it was not that big of a deal....hell i don't know any more.
Forgiveness is a gift you give yourself. it's not saying that you're going to FORGET.. It's saying that you are going to let go of the hurt and not let it weight you down and rather, you are going to let yourself live and move on.
M: 32 H: 34 S:5 D: 3 D: 1 Together 11 years Married 7 Bomb: PA/EA 8/13/09 (for 1 year on and off) ILYBINILWY: 08/09
"The end of suffering happens with the end of wanting." -Laura Munson