Until you really understand what no contact is about and how it will help YOUR life there is nothing more to really say.

No contact is not a tactic to fix your marriage. No contact is a way for you to get your own sh*t together and sort of step back and reevaluate what you need to do for you and the betterment of your present and future. And right now your WAW can't be a part of that.

It will take weeks for her AD's to kick in and months of C'ing before anything can happen FOR HER.

I feel like you are back to square one.