Can you see the Morning After

[calystra]

I think PiB is onto something here...

Got to get past that, so do I leave the bb? move to separated or surviving the big D?

Black and white thinking.

Where do I go from here to rebuild my life alone?

Black and white thinking.

Do I ask David how he would prefer any of his stuff boxed or simply do it?

Black and white thinking.

I think I always kept some hope that we would get back together and I think to do this I have to give that up or I will never move forward.

Black and white thinking.

Yes it is, but to try to stop the pain, I need to try to get David out of my life.

Black and white thinking.

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Homework

(1) What is black&white thinking?

(2) Why is black&white thinking bad?

(3) What does Michele say about black&white thinking? If you don't remember, do some studying in the DR/DB books to answer this.

(4) What can you do to turn this black&white thinking around? (How can you hold onto your hope for the R yet move on with your own life? How can you do your own thing without completely giving up David?)