Just keep the convo light - don't come across as distant but just be "reserved". At the end of the day you want him to feel comfortable to talk to you. When he does LISTEN..and I mean LISTEN.
Good approach on asking where he is going. If he is in a crisis he will need to figure it out and does not need anyone telling him what to do or questioning his whereabouts.
Don't worry about what you have said in the past. Just move forward and do not make the same mistake. I am going to keep reminding you that YOU cannot fix this. You can only make it worse.
Finally, at some point you will get to a place where you begin to realize that as often as you say or write "him" you should be saying "I". Keep your hopes alive and remember YOU control the outcome of this. You may not see that now but you will in the future.
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
