LR: On the topic of going with him the job is just contracting so a) I wouldnt have to and B) no I wouldnt go now with him, he has lost my trust and that will take at least a few years to build up again, once I would have gone any where for him but not now! I want to be near the friends who loved and took care of me when he didnt, where I feel safe! He doesnt acknowledge it mostly cos he doesnt think so,he has lost a large part of me I dont feel Im ever going to be able to give back, bits hopefully one day he will miss!
interesting that you don't think your emotional support system is fully with him anymore
