tired of trying...

[JacT]

Shel I think people hve to make their own choices.I have not fought in any way shape or form for my H because I refuse to play with his head in the way she has.I threw him out cos he crossed the line. We do not deserve this of our spouses, its a cowards way out.I let him go because I love him and want him to be happy if he has TRULY found someone who can accept his cdg.Its not something you get to understand in a few months.I am sure my h OW will be starting to think what the hell?
Here is a great site..forget about the titles, labels etc and read the content.It may give you some answers to your H behaviour and it will help you help you.
Try not to work out what he meant, why he said things, there crazy in this fog so very crazy..He could be back at some point and I guarantee he wont remember half of what he said to you.
Dont matter whether you are LBS or hes wah, your a woman in immense pain that has alot of day to day pressures to deal with..caused by his behaviour.
doesnt matter if your right or wrong, its how he makes you feel.
Did he have issues as a child with abandonment? What was his child hood like?
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