HB - They are things that I didn't like about my H, that I wished were different, but I accepted him as he was, not trying to change him...that's part of unconditional love. And of course there were many more things that I loved about him to compensate.
OW's H called again today to tell me that he & OW went to their second counseling session (she told him in the front of the counselor last week that she is leaving him again, he thought that they were going there to work on M). In this second session she again confirmed that she is decided, that she loves him and that he is her best friend but she can't stay with him because she is "in love" with someone else. Apparently she realizes what she is loosing (her kids among other things), but she can't help it. Her main reason she pointed out for not being happy in her marriage is lack of passion. Same thing my H told me. So is it all about sex for them? OW's H said that he is filing for D.
I told him that if he believes that she is in MLC, the he should think about her maybe wanting to come back again (she has been flip flopping all along). He said that he is filing, she has to know that they are consequences, if she wakes up he will cross that bridge when he gets to it.
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
