OK so, he's left b/c you said if you're unhappy then just leave so he did. In a heated argument words were said and the only solution is to separate. So we can agree pointing each other faults out doesn't make each other feel good.
When you see him, how is he towards you?
Is there any friendly chat? how was your......?
The first step you need to take is building a friendly R with H. You will need to be friends first, before anything else can happen. This is hard b/c you want instant results. Try treating him like a stranger right now. A stranger in need. Don't be rude or harsh on him. Be kind and helpful when you need to be. the little things Not financially.
It seems to me if you culd get to friendly terms and you're both thinking retaionally, then maybe MC might in your future.
Have you gone to IC for yourself??
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