Hi PIB,

I don't know that we will end up divorced. Probably not necessarily until one of us is ready to move into another relationship.

Or maybe David will decide he is ready to just not have any of the responsibilities. But my first H and I didn't divorce for almost a year after I moved out. So I am not saying I expect a D to happen soon.

I am saying for me to heal I have to cut him out of my life as if there was a D.

So I am not looking at is an experiment and monitor, or speaking his love language.

But a step for me to move on with my life.


Pam

"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned
so as to have the life that is waiting for us"