HB I keep hijacking Mila but your posts are so insightful would be interested in your perspective. You said your H suffered childhood (abuse?)abandonement issues.
My W has this as well and it is the unresolved childhood issue in the MLC equation. Interested in how you changed your attitude that made him change? We can talk on my thread though.
Sorry Mila!
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
