I have been working on detachment for about a year now and this is a difficult proccess,
Very good that you are working on this and YES it is a VERY DIFFICULT process. You will fall back into your normal habits sometimes - just remember to dust yourself off and get back on the horse. It takes time so be patient with yourself.
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That was for him to consider a seperation instead of just calling it quits right away.
Really good - it now gives you and him TIME, which is what you need. The question will be...how do YOU use this time?
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However, it is difficult to seperate from each other when you are living in the same house.
OMG - is it but it can be done. I am still in the house with W. Actually slept in the same bed for a while. Although it is difficult, this coupled with TIME give him and you a chance to see the changes that you BOTH will make.
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I still am unclear if I should keep trying to connect when possible.
IMO you connect when the opportunity presents itself. Do not initate convo but feel free to respond just make sure to be the first one to end it. Try and stay away from R convo. Keep it light and simple. If H seems angry then stay away remember YOU cannot FIX THIS.
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
