What sounds better / stronger/ more man like to you if things do not work out.
1. I tried to be a good listener, husband, partner Or 2. I was a good listener, husband, partner.
Doc, It is important to choose words that mean what we say. When I say I'm trying I mean that I'm putting in a deliberate effort at changing some habits. Is there a whiff of fear in my words? Am I still being too tentative? An I still playing not to lose versus win, defense versus offense? Does my word choice reveal something about me, that I'm not aware of? These are good questions.
You are right though that at least for one day, I was a good listener, less selfish, and partner. This is a different perspective than thinking I haven't yet arrived. Some habits can be changed instantly. I need to give myself credit when it's due. I'm big on humility, but maybe take it too far.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
