Should I Tell Her to Move On???

[gr8 day 2B alive]

you guys are fast.
I'm posting the same time and seeing more posts.

RNM, I see your point about let her bring up R/M talk.

What I was thinking was more about what I want out of a healthy R. If it's with her great if not it WILL be with someone else.
That's the extent of R talk I was thinking.
If W does bring it up I will listen validate and ask opened ended questions.

I don't want to talk about the past, I want to talk about a positive future and solution based ideas