Thanks girls. I guess I was trying to say what a&k wished for me on her thread : H should be doing things towards a good R and not to go along with me...
Kat, we have sex often, but it is kind of...quiet without I love yous etc. Sterile. You know?
I have never been to his old office. Can you believe that? Never!! She was "all over the place" K
Definitely need to change that with the new office!
Yes, make it "official". And shampoos and lotions is better than iPods because he's saying ILY in your language, not his. Can you get him to love you more by hurting him?
I agree, at least he was thinking of you by getting personal things for you (how thoughtful!) which is akin to missing you ?? I would be thrilled if bf did that for me, today.. he got my radio installed in my car! I was touched, but, choosing natural body products is more... personal. Anyway, glad there is small signs all the time that you are getting there, getting somewhere at least ??
As for him not talking in bed..do you think he is building his confidence back up again, to be uninhibited and guilt free enough to express himself, like he used to? This is a man afterall who took, what, 5, 6 months of proper reconciliation before he even attempted to ML to you (was it longer ??).. he's like a new born foal, he's found his legs now, but he hasnt attempted to run yet
It's the thought. 
