Quote:

Yes it is, but to try to stop the pain, I need to try to get David out of my life.





OK...so this is a TOTALLY different statement than the one I responded to.

Can you see the difference between:

1. I think that I need to get D. out of my life in order to DB more effectively, reduce the pain, and move forward

vs.

2. It's obvious that David doesn't want to be part of my life and isn't at all invested in saving our M. so I need to ....

You own #1, Pam.

You're letting #2 own you.

Sage


Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.