Originally Posted By: nicole8
My db coach said he would rather my h be spending time with the ow wondering what I am doing than spending time with me and not wanting to be there. I thought it made sense...


It does. If he really has no feelings for you, then he wouldn't care what you are doing.

When I came home last night, I went into the other room to watch TV on my laptop. My wife eventually got up from her computer to see what I was doing. If she didn't care, why would she check?


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."