My db coach said he would rather my h be spending time with the ow wondering what I am doing than spending time with me and not wanting to be there. I thought it made sense...
It does. If he really has no feelings for you, then he wouldn't care what you are doing.
When I came home last night, I went into the other room to watch TV on my laptop. My wife eventually got up from her computer to see what I was doing. If she didn't care, why would she check?
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement