your wife, having already cheated on you and hurt you deeply once, seems to care NOT ONE WHIT about doing what's necessary to make her husband feel safe again in the marital relationship.
I also feel that this is a terrible sign...
However...this is does not take into account your actions, your failings are you a clingy control freak? Is she rebelling because you went back on your word to not be this person...years ago?
Taken by itself, I totally agree with Puppy.
Taken with your possible bad actions and regression toward a lamer you? I still agree with Puppy...but I can understand why better.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
