Another down day. W appears to be continuing her EA. She tells me she wants to distance herself from OM, but that does not seem to be happening. I am attempting to GAL and move on, but it is incredibly difficult. How long before all hope is gone and I just blow it off and move on?
Hi any,
I think it's in your best interest to believe that she is continuing her EA, and probably allowing it to become more intense. I wouldn't believe her saying she is trying to distance. That doesn't seem very likely. I find it easiest to expect the worst and be surprised when it doesn't turn out that way.
Search out other posters on how to end the A. I've got no advice on how to do that, as I've been completely ineffectual ending my H's EA/PA.
In the interim, close ranks around yourself, for your own peace of mind. In my sitch, I've pulled so far back from H that he wonders 'if I still love him' [I didn't hear this from H] GAL as much as you can, that helps.
((any))
M & H: 40 M: 5.5 T: 7.5 OW: 7/09 Bomb: 9/09 Sep: 3/10 H files 7/10
