Only GH can answer that, but my own sense from reading his posts is that his wife's evasiveness (at best) and deceit (at worst) is what is the dealbreaker for him.
It oozes from his posts.
As a reconciled man recovering from prior wife's infidelity myself, I -- like most betrayed spouses -- have an awfully hard time with the "trust" thing. And that's when our wives are TRANSPARENT with us.
I can only imagine how difficult it must be when they stop being so, and openly flaunt their sense of rebellion and entitlement. That sucks.
