From your talk about the car insurance your H is acting like a child who hasn't gotten their way. Cutting off nose to spite face.
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Eventually he started to get on the nasty side, so i stopped him, told him I wasn't going to do this and if he wanted to have a conversation where we weren't pointing fingers at each other then he should call me.
Excellent job here. If H does this- say you will not be spoken to in that manner. and when you are ready to talk calmly then call me.
You're doing fine, but I think you need to do more for yourself. Start really GAL.
Another thought- man's perspective Men feel wnated and needed when they can protect and provide for falimy. It gives them a sense of worth. Since you where the one doing those things he may have felt worthless. Again, just something to think about.
Book-How to Improve your Marriage without talking about It by Pat Love
It goes into why men and women feel the way they do.
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