What if she brings up the fact that I am on the dating site? I think I know the answer. I haven't done anything yet and most likely won't until I know which way the M will turn out.
If this was me, and my H said anything to me about dating, I would say: H, you chose to end this M. That being the case, I am free to date as I see fit. I do not pry into your personal affairs and expect the same respect and consideration that I've shown you.
But that's me, and I'm currently not having too difficult a time maintaining the hard line ...
M & H: 40 M: 5.5 T: 7.5 OW: 7/09 Bomb: 9/09 Sep: 3/10 H files 7/10