I think we still think about our ex's because when we went into this, we did not expect them to be ex's. I know I didn't. And coming to terms with the fact that the marriage is over does take time.
Check out what BA posted...I like the fact that just because I miss the SG, still think about him, and wish, on occasion, that things were different does not necessarily mean I would take him back. I will always love the SG. But, I also have learned to love myself. I had a friend of mine tell me that sometimes you need to love yourself more. So, Poet, look in the mirror and love yourself, and know that you deserve better than a guy who would mess with your head as much as your xh did, and continues to do.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
