Should I Tell Her to Move On???

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I was thinking I made a mistake when I emailed her about the meeting.

I said in the email we should meet to discuss our post-marital agreement.

I should have said: we need to meet to talk about things.

But that's already done with.

Enjoying the day!

No, the e-mail is exactly right. You need to talk about the post marital. You want to talk about things. Put your wants aside for a bit, until your W is at least conducive to hearing them.

I think your best bet is talk about the practical p-m things, w/o bringing up R/M. If your W does, listen, listen, listen. Let her do the bulk of the talking. Validate - I see, I understand, etc. Let W do the talking about her needs, wants, etc.