GM, I see what you're thinking but I'm pretty sure that's not the case. At least I can't see it. She and I are usually there at the same time and I would notice if there was someone there she was interested in. I've never seen her talk to anyone whiles she's there. She always works out with her GF or sister and they keep to themselves and then leave.
DLS, I haven't heard of the ladder theory. I'll have to look it up. Things are "friendly" but I'm not sure if that's what you meant.
Don't know which way to go yet. I like Mr. Bond's simple "you're welcome" reply but CityGirl's advice not to contact W keeps with Gucci's advice of no contact. Either way, it seems like no one feels that I should apologize to her for making her feel uncomfortable. Just let sleeping dogs lie on that one.
M 38 WAW 36 Together 19 years Married 12 years Bomb/Separated Oct. 09 I love my wife Sitch