You had me in tears reading about Mr. Luv/aka JACKLOAD#2.
I'm not sure if this would help, since your kids are older, and might think you're a freak... LOL But, I took S10 to our church sanctuary this am (after seeing the orthopedic surgeon, and getting better news). I told him we could talk about or pray about whatever he wanted. And, we did. It was a real neat moment between mom and son.
Wondering if that helps!?
HUGS, LUV - 7 days! And, the girlfriends get to meet!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.