No, it wouldn't be a bad thing. It has been hard for me to ask for what I want in the past. Difficult to just put it out there. Honestly, I would like for him to say it. So old fashioned of me I know.
I have learned though that if you don't say something, sometimes the chance just passes you by.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Asking for what you want is seriously difficult. I'm with you there sister. Bite the bullet and DO IT!!!!! Tell him you would like to see him and give him a few dates that work for you. Make it happen!
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
Oh I just blurted it out in a text, "Come meet me!" No dates just the sentiment. I will have to wait and see if he answers as he is in St. Louis today.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
You needed to grab the phone! Still don't know anything but I really don't expect a reply when he is working.
Boy Missouri was quick cashing the check I sent for my ticket! I just thought it was best to get it over with. Ex naturally still hasn't sent alimony for this week. Just keeps reminding me that I can't count on him. Thank goodness I don't budget it in!
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Lots of storms around last night and they were talking about tennis ball size hail. It thankfully missed us but we still got thunderstorms. I just hate them at night!
Just realized this morning that Sex and the City is coming out on my 2nd un-anniversary. I am going to have to get some people together and go.
No word from K yet but I am not going to sweat it.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory