Hi Shiny, That sounds really cool, I am definitely going to try that the next time I feel a bit agitated. Heck, I may try it today just when walking to the back after coffee just to practice!
I don't necessarily think David's intention was to poison my two closest friends against me last year either. To me that isn't David's style, but it is what ended up happening.
Hey Sage,
Your post keeps staying in my head . In a good way I think. So yes, my h is on the bb and I think it looks like he has handed out some good advice.
Why isn't he taking any of his advice? Why is he still avoiding me and not showing any interest in communicating with me at all? I guess that is what I don't understand and frustrates me.
I think JJ posted a great idea on communication, but David never responded to it. At least not on the joint thread where I could see his response. Actually he asked me to go ahead and start that thread and the only time he has posted to it was when I asked him to post about the computer problems at work.
So I think I am feeling some hurt and some frustration and reading the first chapter of DR and then the questions just sort of drove it all home to me.
I do agree about being on the bb surrounded by friends! Wish I wasn't feeling wary of that now with David posting.
I also agree you have started a kickA$$ thread to work through DB'ing!
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"