My W calls one day and says she needs information for the divorce paperwork. We talk a few minutes, then agree to meet.
When we meet, we spend about five or ten minutes on the information that was needed, or the "agenda item" if you will. We spend the next hour or better talking about goals, our M issues, and what she was thinking about. Some of our talk was about the future, and it was stuff that neither of us had even considered or thought about until THAT DAY.
Now, did anything change that day? No. But both of us left that discussion thinking about things.
Several days later, she calls me to go to dinner. Wants to discuss us getting into MC.
My point to you is this. Don't think small. Your agenda is the post marital agreement. From a big view, the question is this. Is there any possibility that a post marital agreement will not be needed after all?
That question may not, and probably won't be, answered in your meeting. After our meeting was done, my W heard two things from me that influenced her. One was that the things I said let her know I had been listening to her. The other thing was my sincerity to try to implement those things for ME, for HER, and for US.
