Hopper,

You better have the stones to live up to what you said, otherwise your a push over, a big fluffy rainbowbrite push over.

I am ALL FOR Boundaries...

When the LBS is capable of making them. (logically not emotionally)

Enforcing them. (Not giving up, because the lbser doesn't have a backbone)

And Living with them. (Living on either side of the decision of the WAS..and LIVNG not worrying about it)


A boundary made TOO SOON? Usually is the one that kicks you square in the Jimmy.



Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet