Maybe I didn't blow it?

[soleil]

Hey Konfuseeed (love the spelling of your screenname, by the way).

I am going to agree with the guys here saying for you to "silently" go away.

If she wants to be cold and distant, that's her problem. Don't call her 500 times. You ahve already let her know you want to work this marriage out. She knows.

There does seem to be a cloud of mystery around a man who "silently" goes away. Like he pulls and curtain over him and voila... gone like magic.

If she wants you she will call you.

I know it's hard but you can do this.