From this day forward................

[kat727]

Yes, I am. It took a long time for me to see that it wasn't about me. Was I the perfect partner? No and of course neither was he. However, at no time did I force him to have an affair and leave. Those were his choices based on his issues. Just as they are for anyone who walks away.

I used to think I was pretty down on the totem pole if the scum of the earth didn't want me. Then I thought, I was holding him out of the scum. Another piece of scum grabbed him and he let go. Now I am free of it and I can go on to better things.

You can too.

kat