"Wife, you asked the other day what we are going to do. Here is what I decided. I won't live in a open marriage. Unless you break off all contact and we have complete transparency, meaning I have access to your e-mail, cell phone and know where you are going to be. If you can't agree to that then this marriage is over and I won't move out of my house. If you do agree to that then we will attend MC together and work on the issues that keep us from feeling loved and respected to each other."
She tested you. See she has a plan because she can't trust you to have one - she really needs this from her husband. She wants clarity, a plan and boundaries because it's healthy and mature.
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She asked, "What do you think?"
She is telling you exactly what she wants.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
