Instead of taking it as a criticism (which I KNOW I would do) maybe we can both work on the fact that they are such idiots that they spend their time looking for things to be critical of in us....
like the bank account
shut up...your son lives with you and the bank account was the same when you were together does he have an account for your son?
of course he downgraded...duh...EVERYONE knows it...truth hurts, huh?
so he is spending all this energy trying to make you feel bad about his shitacular decisions...poor poor little turdface (I am ina mood today...sorry...I am trying to get a grip too)
lucky you that you don't have to waste your time worrying about his crappy decisions because you are too busy LIVING your life instead of fiddling with his
am I making sense? Too much coffee, not enough sleep and a crazy ex-wife of Cori's is making me a little punchier than normal
in a nutshell (I hope you just skipped down to here) he is spending his time worrying about how you live your life...remember than when he is being critical...and if the worst he can come up with is that you think he is a tool and that his son's bank account is the same as when he left then you MUST be doing some stuff right?