Yes, but it is not anything that you can control. She needs to work it out inside of her. A year and 1/2 ago she wanted a D. WHY? Whatever you answer, was that REALLY the reason?
The money represents security. She is needing to feel secure because earlier in her life she did not get that security. Her inner child and outer child have been in conflict. I think that your marriage will survive, however you need to continue to DB and do "what works". I said earlier on your thread that we are married to the same women, I still believe that.
Do you think that this influx of cash is going to make a big difference in your M?