Sch - I'm so discouraged myself...am I ready to give up? No. I have 36 years invested in this man....good years with a good man. I'm not going to trow all that away because of MLC. He may make the decision for me...but at this time I'm still hopeful that my guy will come out of this.

Yours is giving you much more hope then mine is giving me right now. So go with that and decide if you want to be patient for him to come full circle. In one of her posts to me HB said that when they are trying to reconnect "Things don't look right, smell right or taste right"

(((hugs)))

M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO